Shameela was so happy to become a mother and she loved to spend time playing with her 2 yr old child, Kamal. But lately, she was feeling nervous about some things that she was noticing about him. She had read that by now, he should be starting to talk and he was not. Also, when she was at the park with him, he seemed “different” than the other children. He did not laugh or smile the way that the other kids did. He seemed like he was mostly in his own little world. So even though this was hard to do, Shameela decided that she needed to sort out what was happening and decided to visit her family doctor.
Every child is unique and each develops in their own way and at their own pace. But as parents, it is important to know what the general patterns are so we can be alert and get any help for our child if needed.
When Shameela took Kamal to the doctor, the doctor asked a series of questions and then explained that Kamal needed further assessment to see if he had a form of autism.
The doctor explained that Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a complex, neurobiological condition that effects functioning levels in many parts of the body. Typically, an autistic person is more “disconnected” than the norm and often has some strange behaviours, such as repeating themselves a lot or doing strange hand gestures. It affects how they relate to others and often the type of interests that they have. Often, someone with ASD can have excellent reasoning, spacial or memory skills.
Usually the child starts with normal development and then clues start to show when the child is approximately 1-2 years old. The formal diagnosis is often not made until the child is 3-4 years old. Boys are diagnosed with autism disorders four times more often than girls. There is a range of functioning levels. One of the higher functioning types of autism is called Asperger’s Disorder.
Once diagnosed, there are numerous interventions to assist the child to develop to full capacity. As well, sometimes, medications are used.
For family members, this diagnosis can be shocking and upsetting. Learning about the disorder can help to guide parents and know what to expect. Extended family and friends can support by listening, learning and asking questions in a caring, supportive manner. Encourage families to get connected for professional supports as well.
Those with autism can present as “different” and many of us get nervous when we do not understand what these “strange behaviours” are all about. Sometimes, we might even laugh at or tease someone who is different because we ourselves are feeling uncomfortable. It is important to remember that every person is special and has their own unique contributions to make in this world. Knowing more about the disorder might help all of us to become a more accepting community, in which differences are embraced and celebrated.
For more information on ASD, google Autism Canada or speak with your family doctor.
