The former President of Bangladeshi Students’ Association (BSA) at University of Toronto, Purna exudes a confidence and conviction in her beliefs that is rare in today’s Canadian youth.
Currently trying out for the Royal Canadian Mounting Police (RCMP), Purna traces her journey from a new immigrant to the confident woman she has become today. Although seventeen when she first stepped onto Canadian soil, she admits to having felt no social or cultural disconnect that is the usual case with new immigrants.
She admits that “there is a fair bit of media exposure [back in Bangladesh]” that prepared her for Canada. But she also admits to feeling a bit too “mature” for her high school peers, as well as discovering the education system to be “easier” than the system in Bangladesh. She chuckles as she remembers doing calculus in grade twelve in Canada, which she had already been introduced to in grade nine in Bangladesh.
Talking of her community, she feels that her community is still not open to issues such as interracial dating or homosexuality. While interracial dating is still tolerable to certain socially conscious liberal minded families like hers, homosexuality is a “hush-hush” issue. According to her, homophobia is “very, very wrong”. She admits to having gay friends who she feels are “sometimes even nicer” than her straight friends. She attributes this quality to the many hardships that homosexual or bisexual individuals usually go through, and which is why “they know not to discriminate or judge”. Purna feels that homophobia is “just a judgmental thing… [as] people are scared of… anything that is different”. She sees South Asians as a “repressive [race]” who “tend to repress… and overlook the history of bisexuality and homosexuality” in the history of South Asians.
When asked about her involvement with the BSA, and the reason behind the group’s formation, she explains, “Our goal is to promote our own culture…which is distinctly different from the rest of South Asia”. Purna elaborates that even though initially there was a discussion on naming the group as Bengali Students Association in an attempt to include Bengalis from other countries, it was not possible as “BSA specifically supports charities that are based in Bangladesh”. “And why is that?” I wonder aloud. “It was not to alienate others deliberately, but because I believe that first we must help ourselves before we help others and at the moment, Bangladesh needs our help”.
Purna also feels that BSA is a necessary platform for Bangladeshi students to build social skills. She laughs and says, “I don’t want to generalize but [Bangladeshis] lack a bit of social skills because we are so ingrained into our studies…Studies [always] come first… We tend to overlook being confident on a social platform… being able to speak publicly… have leadership skills etc. We want to provide [these skills] to our members and our students”.
She also confesses that even though she is a graduate with a Bachelor of Science from University of Toronto and her initial instinct was to fulfill her mother’s dream of becoming a doctor, currently her heart is set on the RCMP.







































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