I turn on my radio, sing along RDB and wonder where they started from. I think about the journey they have taken through the land of notes and tunes, and how they have arrived at the final destination to give us super hits. To quench my curious thirst, I met Manj from RDB at his studios in Mississauga. The humble Manj (the middle brother) stepped out of his recording studio and our brief meeting took off in their aesthetically furnished conference room.
RDB rose out of England and spread all across the desi-globe. This band of brothers shares a strong unique bond of a unanimous struggle. The ups and downs that kept them together and the worry they caused their father was never understood better by anyone but them. The three brothers pursuing a career that has a rapport of more failures than success, was enough to make their father stay up nights thinking about the abandoned glorious careers his sons would have had in medicine and law. But the strong brotherhood convinced him that nature had defied the law of probability and all three are blessed with musical talent.
Kuly, Manj and Surj started their pursuit of music by dreaming of becoming DJs. They played music by utilizing any household item that would produce any tune: broken bowls, spoons, tapes, and torn out speakers were their best weapons in this battle to convince their father. Finally, he gave in and bought his sons new speakers and CD players to pursue their crazy dream.
Manj recalls that the first time they Dj-ed was on Surj’s 18th birthday party. That event opened the doors for them to the world of producing music and DJing at events of all sorts. From that point on they became full fledged wedding DJs. The over flowing bookings and response from the audience made them think about making their own songs. Manj says, “We were playing people’s songs and started thinking that why shouldn’t we make our own. So, we made a mini studio and did two songs. We would play them everywhere we went.”
Getting their foot through the doors of the music industry through DJing, they started noticing the response of the audience, “We wanted to make songs that would get people on the dance floor and then we worked on keeping them there. We would go back to the studio and take out the part that made people’s hands go down on the dance floors.”
Constant editing and re-editing gave rise to a strong brotherhood and talented musicians for the world to witness.
Manj talks highly about his father and says, “Dad never wanted us going clubbing ever, but then we started as a group and people started talking about us. He felt proud and advised us to take it all the way to the top. He told us not to leave it half way. We discussed what we were planning to do and he gave us his blessings.”
This gifted group found their inspiration from the one who sired them, “Our dad is very religious and he used to do hymns in Gurdwaras so we learnt Bajaa and Tabla at [a] very young age and that’s where we get our inspiration from.”
The band of brothers expanded and Nindy joined in after her marriage to Manj. Manj ran into Nindy in Toronto and moved here. He laughs and recalls, “I had no idea she had another talent apart from making me roti.” Manj heard his wife sing along a song while driving and brought her straight to the studios. With a little more encouragement he made a song and sent it to his brothers in England to hear her out.
“Aaja Sajna” came into being and Nindy was their female singer from then on.
When Manj came to Canada, he faced all the struggles any new immigrant has to face. He lived in a basement initially with his wife and had to rebuild his career as a singer in this new land. “It was a hard experience to be very well known in England and not to be recognized at all in Canada. It was a big ‘thappar’ in the face. It was a wake-up call to restart everything.”
It was a hard struggle but a reality check at the right time.
Talking about their appearance in Bollywood, Manj says that we had no idea we would make it there until Akshay Kumar called us. It was our music that got us a break.
RDB is thankful to Akshay for bringing them into Bollywood. But Manj says that this success hasn’t changed us as people, “We are still the same ones we were, still making our music and doing out thing. Bollywood hasn’t gotton to our heads.”
Manj loves the fact that the entire family is a part of RDB. It gives them an opportunity to have quality family time even when at work. “We do the shows together, we travel as a family. Work never got into family life because it became our family life.”
The dad that initially opposed clubbing and a career in music later became the secret weapon of this band. The birth of RDB helped him discover his hidden talent as a poet and he writes their songs.
Manj says that it is sometimes hard for us to discuss things with our dad that are opposed to our cultural values. When we described the plot of “Kambakht Ishq” to our dad and asked him to write the song, as a father he kept on arguing, “But that’s so wrong. The guy has to fall in love and marry the girl he loves at some point.”
He further says, “As a group we try to keep neutral, we don’t want to be political activists or anything of the sort. When we are given a project we just give it our best.”
Traveling all across the globe and hearing about identity crisis at every turn, Manj says that they discovered who they are. “We are technically not from anywhere. We are Indian because our forefathers were from India. Although we were born in England but we are not English either, we are nor white, we are not British. And now I live in Toronto. I am not from India, I am not from England, I am not from Canada. But wherever I am from is who I am. The best way to describe it is that I am a believer in all cultures and all countries.”
He further says, “One thing that can bring everyone together is music. There are going to be fine lines around religion and wars are based on religion. But music is in every religion and brings people together.”
Manj finally says to all the fans out there to watch out for their new album, “World Wide” coming this summer with the first single by Nindy Kaur.
Author: Saniya Zahid





























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