Posted on 16 June 2010 by .
A dad they say is a friend, philosopher and guide. He is the guiding force that remains with us forever.
“Just as mother and child, the bond between a father and a child is an important one. Children need a unique style of bonding that fathers provide. The father-child relationship becomes stronger, if both of them spend time engaging in physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual activities,” states relationship expert Mahima Mathur.
The word ‘dad’ dates back to the 16th century. It may have originated with the Welsh word ‘tad’ (father), which later mutated to dad. The word ‘father’ is derived from the Old English ‘foeder’.
“It`s a beautiful festival that acknowledges and appreciates the important role played by a father in raising the child and consequently building a stronger society,” says Piyush, an employee of Just Energy’s. Father’s Day story is the tale of realization of the need for a Father’s Day festival primarily by Ms Sonora Louise Smart Dodd of Washington. The story narrates Sonora’s unflagging struggle to officially set a day to honour all fathers. Thanks to Sonora, today Fathers Day is celebrated in a large number of countries around the world.

Ashish Sharma
So dads have dropped you off to school, while on the way to office, even if it meant taking a detour, pushed you on a swing, helped you with your homework, taken you out to your favorite ice cream palour when you scored an A in your exams, built your science project, made it to your dance competition on time, paid your mobile bills and fixed your first car. Today is his day so let’s talk about some ways in which we can make it special for him!

Me (Ramya)
Spend the day with him
This is the biggest thing you can gift him. You can just spend the day on the couch watching some of his favourite movies. Dig out old photo albums and reminisce on days long lost.
“I am looking forward to be with my dad, this Father’s day. I just want to spend the whole day with him, because it’s been quite some time since we have had a heart to heart conversation,” says Raj Gupta, a financial consultant.
Samir Reddy, a media professional, also has plans lined up for the D-day. “I am taking my father out for a movie, since he is a big movie lover and later end the day with a quite dinner.”

Piyush
Drop in for a surprise if you are away
Its indeed a wonderful way to surprise him. “My dad has always been my anchor, and now that I am away from home, I am going to send him a picture of us together to remind him that I adore him. I might even take a few days off from my university and just go home and play Golf to surprise him says Mayank Gupta, a student of York University. ”

Cook or take him out for dinner
Pamper him with whatever culinary ceremonies he enjoys most, whether it’s breakfast in bed, a burger-and-beer lunch at the local sports bar, dinner at his favorite four-star restaurant. Pay a special thanks to daddy by indulging in some delightful eating extravaganza. “I plan to pamper my dad, this Father’s day, since they are the ones least pampered in the family. His idea of peace and happiness is good food and wine with the entire family in tow,” shares Sumeet Pal Singh, a merchandiser.
Old-fashioned picnic
Summer is here! And if your dad enjoys barbeque then barbeque on Niagara on the lake is a great idea. “I will organize a picnic for my dad with lots of surprise gifts. I will invite all his old friends in this picnic whom he has always wanted to meet. It couldn’t be a better surprise for him on this Father’s day,” divulges Shreya Agarwal, a blogger.
A gesture as simple as a game of squash or chess at the picnic is sure to get his youthful juices going again.
Pamper him with gifts
Think what he always wanted! It might be salsa lessons, a pottery class, learning a new language or even skydiving. Now, do what you can to help him fulfill this dream. Believing in your dad’s dreams is a wonderful gift to him and to yourself when you see how happy it makes him.
“My father is an avid reader, so this Father’s day I intend to get him a book by Kahlil Gibran, that he’s been intending to buy for a long time, but has been just too lazy to get it. I love my dad for who he is and what he’s help me become,” says Shalini Mehta, Customer Service Representative at Bell Canada.
From rugged outdoor radios to a digital running coach and James-Bond-worthy hard drive, update yourself with details about latest gadgets that Dad can’t wait to unwrap this Father’s Day, if he is a techie.
You can also present your dad a gift of good health this Father’s Day by reminding him of the importance of healthy living. Ashish Sharma, a software professional, puts, “I have bought a treadmill for my father because I want him to get on a fitness track in his life.”
So he`s always there for you that you take him for granted? Perhaps it is the embarrassment of walking up to him, gift in hand and bringing yourself to say, “Dad, this is for you. Thank you for being there for me,” afraid he’ll fake a stern face even when you know he’s beaming inside.
Either way, we know we owe it to father. After all, who comes to the rescue when mom is getting hysterical about everything that seems fine to us but not to her?
So why Father’s Day you ask? Think about it. Maybe what you do to make him feel special on that one day can be an eye-opener to all the things, big and small, that he has done for you.
And with Fathers Day just two days ahead Generation Next wishes you all fathers a Happy Fathers Day!
Author:Ramya Maheshwary